It's "The Decade" of your lifetime

Life is all about achieving things. We often ask or are asked "What have you achieved in life ?"

Well there's no doubt we all aspire to do things which make us happy and content. Achievement is something which should not be taken just in the academic or professional or financial sense. Achievement is something that involves emotions and inner happiness as well.

So the topic "The Decade" which I'm taking about is for the people blooming in their early and mid 20s. Yes this the time when one is at it's peak. Freshly come out as an educated person, quite familiar with the ideology of generations of younger as well as the older lot, aspiring to work hard and of course not missing out on the fun too.

And then there comes this time when we tend to feel things not going great, goals changing, preferences changing, mindset changing, friends changing, people changing and what not!

Well this is the part and parcel of the life and this is that stage where everything looks like a puzzle as it's damn confusing! We sometimes go blank having no idea about what's going on actually. Remember how much ever we may feel that we are wasting our lives or not making the best out of it, we are constantly learning and evolving. We may not realize it now but as and when time passes we shall eventually.

A person keeps on experiencing the phases of life till he dies. There's always something new or the other. Well this is the time when we are actually learning irrespective of how we might find those things that we are occupied with it to be fruitful or not.

Work shall pass by, people shall pass by, emotions would come and go but this phase won't ever come again, so let's free our minds and enjoy the beauty of this so-called "Jawani", kyun ki yeh jawani hai sach me badi deewani !!

It's time to UNDERSTAND

We often try to change the things that we are unhappy with. Well there's nothing wrong in that as change for good is always welcomed and should be appreciated. "We humans always want all things to be always alright." Well the above sentence is quite relative because the things which we want to be alright are the ones which would indirectly make us only happy again. These things are something which we think it to be correct in our way and it would make us undoubtedly happy if someone agrees to it perfectly. And ultimately things shall be happy and problem solved !

In a way Yes ! Problem is solved, but let's think it from the opposite persons point of view. What must be going on in their mind ? What are their views ? Can we be wrong or may be can't they be correct as well ?

What I'm trying to say here is that let's not try to change things according to our comforts. This time let's try to understand the opposite person rather than making our point. This time let's just try to listen them out and be in their place. It's not necessary that they might be right , they can be pretty wrong as well. But this time let's just try to understand that person and let them understand themselves with time. Let's be patient. Time always makes people realize things. 

Life would have become pretty beautiful and peaceful if everyone understood each other. It is the misunderstandings that create problems, don't they? Everyone should have their attitude, self respect and egos but sometimes they are better if not shown. We should believe in doing our bit and rest is not in our hands.

Thus, let's not haste into things to get them in place. Well this time, let's give things time to get in place themselves! 
Yes this time let's Understand !